We introverts know the value of some good, refreshing silence. Aaaaah. Silence. Yes. There are situations, however, when silence can become awkward and unpleasant even for us. Car trips. Visitors. People who stare at you expectantly because they are shy and/or introverted too and hope you will make the first move. In these cases, less introverted persons usually resort to small talk – anything to fill the void and banish the silence! But what are people to do who dread lengthy talk about the weather more than dentist appointments? Who would rather have a deep and meaningful conversation, but do not feel sufficiently accquainted with the current conversation partner to do so? Fear not, my fellow introverts, for I am going to let you in on some secrets. The art of small talk for introverts.
I’d like to mention, by the way, that my credentials in this regard are impressive. For example, I recently had a six-hour car trip with a loose acquaintance. It was not the least bit awkward and I ended up making a genuine new friend. Being from the countryside and, consequently, having had a beat-up old car since age 18 has really helped me get so much better small talk. When you drive people around all the time, you learn to fill the silence with something other than complaining about other drivers. So let me share my petrol-fuelled wisdom.